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If I ask you for advice and then decide not to obey the advice don't get pissy at me. I asked to see if you had any advice available that would be relevant, and you didn't, so I calmly without criticizing you decided not to heed it. I never asked you for further or better advice after that... I just decided not to obey what you told me. So you had no right to yell at me "How dare you complain about your problems and then don't follow my advice about them." This isn't me ordering a product and then deciding I don't need it... this is me looking at the product description and deciding I'm not going to order it. Hardly an inconvenience. How does it even effect you (other than your ego) whether I heed the advice or not? If I hadn't asked at all, would it have affected you?

If had complained AFTER you gave your advice, it would have been a different story. Get a handle on how time works.

In a similar vein, don't accuse me of being a choosing beggar just because i reject help or a donation I don't need or want or that would be a hindrance or hazard or burden. I'm not begging for something more or different or extra or something else..  I'm just saying this thing you gave me doesn't apply to me. I'm not a choosing beggar... I'm a choosing rejector and a rejecting beggar. Learn the difference.

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