So you feel the need to announce your departure from a group, place, institution, organization, community, whatever.
It's because you want others to miss you, but that's not all. It's because you don't think anyone will miss you if you just left without announcing it, but that's not all of it either.
The important, overwhelming part of it is that this is your last-ditch attempt in that particular vicinity/community to make a close, genuine friend who will understand exactly why you are doing this... preferably without you having to explain a thing. Someone who, as soon as you yell loudly in the wilderness, will be aware of your existence, and know just from your yell itself exactly what you need, because they need the exact same thing... and you would then find it in each other.
That's valid. You need, deserve, and therefore have every right to look for that. We all need, deserve and have every right to that.
Just try, once you can, to not use dehumanizing insults or anything dehumanizing as your method of-- or your partial aim you hope to achieve by-- announcing your departure.
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